Nawww My Behind is Tender, I have been spanked and bitten etc I know about such stuff. Iam just saying I prefur the soft but firm touch myself.

 

BESIDES I'M FUN you have my word on it *chuckle*

*CHUCKLE* you smart Ass!

Maybe Iam a Wuss, but its OK I don't mind being a Wuss, I would much rather be a Wuss then walk around all brused and broken because someone felt I needed to experience the fine line between pain and pleasure.

LOL I suppose its all in how you state your case huh? add a little broken and all of a sudden it don't appeal anymore ... THANK GOODNESS haha haha

I understand what your saying actually ... LOL

I have a girlfriend who likes things ruff, and the funny or not so funny thing about her and all that is that she has been known to throw over a really nice guy how isn't into ruff in favor of a really bad guy who is. and by good and bad I mean the normal like one guy if very good to her and her children and helps her out clean cut nice man and the other is a drunk who takes advantage of her and isn't so nice to her or her children and he is VERY un-loyal ...

so perhaps my view is tainted??

Yup It sure does confuse me, I sorta think that most women who are like that perhaps have this mothering instinct thing backwards THEY think they can change or save the Guy. and while in that process they endanger there yougins I just don't get it. sometimes I wish I could be stupid to, but generally that passes in like a blink of an eye.

WOMEN are weird creatures I tell you! But you just gotta LOVE US hehe

Not even a Little arguement? *giggles*

 

The key is to NOT try and change someone, I mean if you REALLY did fall in love with them as they were then WHY change them? and if you feel that something needs to change, then perhaps you really need to RETHINK your OWN feelings.

People generally change little amounts as they go though life, those are growing up or old changes they are not Major I changed because I love you kind of things ..Don't ever try and fix or change something to your will, because your not really lovin it as it is ... if that makes sense.

Yup Agree

The long and the short is, that those little things are all just Little things they don't or shouldnt change how you love someone.

if you are looking at someone and thinking that this is wrong or that is wrong these are the things that need to be changed then your not really loving them for who they are, but who you think that they can be. If your the wrong person from the get go, then you will end up one day in a marriage which don't fullfill your needs in life, and you will be horribly unhappy.

 

SO! find someone you like talking to, you like spending time with, someone who when you think of them a smile crosses your face, Humans are so caught up on the perfect LOOK of a person that they often forget the inner self. and frankly if your looking at the exterior and not the interior you are not mature enough to realize that it won't work out.

Can I ramble or WHAT! LoL

Yes I agree with you, The problem I think is that everyone seems to have forgotten that Marriage is a sacrament, today its treated as a pastime, and if you don't like the players you just get out. NOT that I think that you should stay in an abusive situation. but its way to easy these days to marry and divorce. I know many Men who are on wife 4 or 5 IN ONE LIFE TIME!

HELLO! where is it written that Men or Women are a Throw away Commodity?? everyone wants to be treated respectfully, yet we have no respect for our life choices, maybe if it wasn't so easy to jump in and out of a marriage we would think twice before entering it. Since I don't think that anyone really looks at marriage as a permanent  situation anymore.

 
Sadly We evolve into something so different yet becomes common place with each new generation.

I agree with you, but don't you think on the average that more people tend to see what they want to see in someone anyhow?

There are those instances where one lies to another to achieve some goal. but I think for the most part we see it, yet don't see it since it wouldnt fit with what we are wanting at the moment.

LOL isn't there like some late night game show like that?

That actually would be cool, and Iam sure there is a game show like that, what happens is that two of your ex Girlfriend/boyfriend get together and they feed information about you to the ONE your trying to get a date with, and if they can convience you that he/she isn't worth dating then they WIN the money but if he/she gets the date They WIN.

I know its out there I seen it a couple times months ago one of those late night kind of shows.

 

if you think about it, how many people would make better choices if only they could click on a dating link which had all sorts of pros and cons about the person your thinking of dating. LOL

your correct not many splits are amicable .. I have had a couple that were ok, but it really still didn't go well, despite the fact that both parties went into it knowing what the other was seeking or not seeking. even though we both I think try to remain friends someone is generally still hurt. I can think of one right off the top of my head and that was sorta my fault, But only in the respect that he knew the rules and broke them, (not that Iam a hard ass) but I had my doubts and when I talked to him about them I chose to go with his way of thinking not my own. and it was wrong so when I broke it off, even though he expected it. He was badly hurt and did things to attempt causing me some heart ache as well. I suppose that just proves the point that when you and your own heart are involved the rules bend and you find yourself doing things I doubt that you would generally do.

I think the way a site like that would work would be if it was interactive, in other words you should be able to ask questions as well as read what others have to say, like if Iam going to bash an ex then I should be able to back that up if asked about them. BUT then your looking at an awful lot of commitment from people and frankly if they were into commitment they wouldnt be posting on a site about Exs eh?

 

LOL it occured to me that we do come up with some strange subjects to talk about